Taking Care of Men: Sexual Politics in the Public Mind

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Cambridge University Press, Aug 13, 1999 - Biography & Autobiography - 232 pages
The idea of the sensitive, post-feminist 'new man' has received great attention. This book sets out to determine how much of the hype is based on fact, and why such images have proliferated in the media. McMahon focuses on the pivotal issue of men's relationship to the vital daily work of caring for people - both physically and emotionally - revealing much confusion about the extent and the interpretation of change. Using statistical data, as well as interview transcripts and media analysis, McMahon draws insightful distinctions between pleasure and performance, assistance and responsibility, gendered personality and gendered jobs, and - underlying all - between consumption and production. Incorporating social theory, psychology and popular culture, this book argues that recent social conversation about men largely avoids the important political point that men's material interests provide a major motivation for resistance to pro-equity change.
 

Contents

Having a Wife The Division of Labour and Male Right
11
Producing Men The Labour of Love
38
The Revolving Door
63
Stalled Rhetoric The Optimistic Will
65
Its on the Agenda Optimism over Images
92
The New Father The Masculine New Man
116
The Blocked Door
151
BlockedDoor Theory Misrecognising Resistance
153
The Separated Defensive Male Psychologising Sexual Politics
179
Waiting for the Man
203
Bibliography
207
Index
228
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