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Why was she the first person I felt passionately about outside my family —
someone who was not only a lesbian, but a butch lesbian? How had we
recognized each other then, with no language for who we were? What mark had
we each left ...
Often a lesbian considered "too butch" was assumed to be, at least in part, a male
chauvinist. She might get thrown out of her lesbian collective for this, or refused
admittance to a lesbian bar. Frequently a lesbian who was "too femme" was ...
This is not a man passing on the street who sees you as a man, arm in arm with
me, a woman. This is not a lesbian who watches us dancing at a party, and sees
you as either a butch lesbian or a woman trying to be a man, and me as femme or
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Amazing. Loved every aspect of this book. She shows how her thoughts and process have developed and changed over the years with both conversaitons, debates, and encounters with the people she has met ... Read full review
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An amazing book of vignettes that explore the ideas and intersections of love, sexuality, gender, and identity. A beautiful love letter to her partner, Leslie Feinberg. Read full review