My Lie: A True Story of False Memory

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John Wiley & Sons, Nov 5, 2010 - Social Science - 272 pages
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Meredith Maran lived a daughter's nightmare: she accused her father of sexual abuse, then realized, nearly too late, that he was innocent.

During the 1980s and 1990s, tens of thousands of Americans became convinced that they had repressed memories of childhood sexual abuse, and then, decades later, recovered those memories in therapy.

Journalist, mother, and daughter Meredith Maran was one of them. Her accusation and estrangement from her father caused her sons to grow up without their only grandfather, divided her family into those who believed her and those who didn't, and led her to isolate herself on "Planet Incest," where "survivors" devoted their lives, and life savings, to recovering memories of events that had never occurred.

Maran unveils her family's devastation and ultimate redemption against the backdrop of the sex-abuse scandals, beginning with the infamous McMartin preschool trial, that sent hundreds of innocents to jail—several of whom remain imprisoned today.

Exploring the psychological, cultural, and neuroscientific causes of this modern American witch-hunt, My Lie asks: how could so many people come to believe the same lie at the same time? What has neuroscience discovered about the brain's capacity to create false memories and encode false beliefs? What are the "big lies" gaining traction in American culture today—and how can we keep them from taking hold?

My Lie is a wrenchingly honest, unexpectedly witty, and profoundly human story that proves the personal is indeed political—and the political can become painfully personal.


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I had a really hard time with this book: the character of the author, so passive and easily influenced until all of a sudden, after ruining several lives and the external culture had shifted, she wasn ... Read full review

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I enjoyed the narrative, confessional style of the writing. It was not written in a "sensational" way to leverage on "shock value," just with a flow of honesty and precision with analyzing the events ... Read full review


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Chapter Four Breaking the Silence
Chapter Five Daddy Cant Come Home Again
Chapter Six Remember
Chapter Seven Did He or Didnt He?
Chapter Eight In Therapy We Trust
Chapter Nine Doubt
Chapter Ten Deprogramming
Chapter Eleven What Was I Thinking?
Chapter Twelve Eternal Sunshine of
Chapter Thirteen In Neuroscience We Trust
Chapter Fourteen Amends
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Meredith Maran is an award-winning journalist and the author of several best-selling nonfiction books, among them Dirty, Class Dismissed, and What It's Like to Live Now. Her work appears in anthologies, newspapers, and magazines including People, Self, Family Circle, More, Mother Jones, the San Francisco Chronicle, and A member of the National Book Critics Circle, she lives in Oakland, California.

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