Invisible Loyalties: Reciprocity in Intergenerational Family Therapy

accounts adult aged parents Anne aspects attitudes balance battered child syndrome become behavior capacity child concept concern conflicts context daugh daughter delinquent dependent described dialectical dimensions disloyalty dynamic emotional emotionally ethical existential expectations exploitation exploration face family loyalty family members family of origin family relationships family system family therapy family's father feelings felt function grandmother grandparents guilt guilt-laden homeostasis hurt husband important incest indebtedness individual interactions interlocking internalized invisible justice ledger living loyal loyalty commitments Lucille marital marriage maternal ment merit mother motivations multigenerational multiperson system mutual needs negative never nuclear family obligations one's overtly parentification pathogenic patient patterns person psychodynamic psychological psychotherapy rebalancing reciprocity rela relational relationship system responsible retributive retributive justice revealed role scapegoat scapegoating school phobia separation sessions sexual siblings sister social structure superego symbiotic talk theory thera therapeutic therapist tion tional transference treatment trust uncon unconscious wife