Why Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between)

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Macmillan, Sep 29, 2009 - Social Science - 336 pages

An unparalleled exploration of the mysteries underlying women's sexuality that rivals the culture-shifting Kinsey Report, from two of America's leading research psychologists

Do women have sex simply to reproduce or display their affection? When University of Texas at Austin clinical psychologist Cindy M. Meston and evolutionary psychologist David M. Buss joined forces to investigate the underlying sexual motivations of women, what they found astonished them.

Through the voices of real women, Meston and Buss reveal the motivations that guide women's sexual decisions and explain the deep-seated psychology and biology that often unwittingly drive women's desires—sometimes in pursuit of health or pleasure, or sometimes for darker, disturbing reasons that a woman may not fully recognize. Drawing on more than a thousand intensive interviews conducted solely for the book, as well as their pioneering research on physiological response and evolutionary emotions, Why Women Have Sex uncovers an amazingly complex and nuanced portrait of female sexuality. They delve into the use of sex as a defensive tactic against a mate's infidelity (protection), as a ploy to boost self-confidence (status), as a barter for gifts or household chores (resource acquisition), or as a cure for a migraine headache (medication).

Why Women Have Sex stands as the richest and deepest psychological understanding of female sexuality yet achieved and promises to inform every woman's (and her partner's) awareness of her relationship to sex and her sexuality.

 

Contents

Scent Body Face Voice Movement Personality andYesHumor
1
Sexual Gratification and Orgasm
28
An Emotional and Spiritual Connection
50
From Capturing a Mate to Poaching One
78
From Guarding a Mate to Trading Up
99
When Responsibility or Guilt Calls
117
When Curiosity Varietyand Mate EvaluationBeckon
145
The Value of SexLiterally and Figuratively
167
Body Image Attention Power and Submission
191
Sexual Deception Punishment and Abuse
211
The Health Rewards of a Sex Life
236
Womens Sexual Complexities
261
Notes
265
Acknowledgments
291
Index
295
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Cindy M. Meston is one of the world's leading researchers on women's sexuality and a professor of clinical psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, where she directs the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory, a cutting-edge lab on women's sexual experience. David M. Buss, one of the founders of the field of evolutionary psychology, is a professor at the University of Texas at Austin and is the author of several books, including The Evolution of Desire and The Dangerous Passion. Their jointly authored article, "Why Humans Have Sex," garnered international attention when it was published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

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